Soul Mates and Throw Up

What do you think about soul mates? I, though embarrassed to admit I watched it, wondered about the booklet Molly made for Jason titled something about soul mates. Or where do you stand on love at first sight? Just writing in stream of consciousness...but I think during a show like that, when lavished with every expense and set in just the "right" places one might be easily led to believe they are falling in love. Love shows up in reality, I think...Love shows up when your significant other is holding the toilet throwing up...how do you love then? Or how about when you feel like doing something/watching one thing/going some place specific and loved one feels like doing the opposite...is love a sacrifice? A mutual sacrifice? A give and take, push and pull...lumberjack sawing kind of love? Love can also be the cutesy little things, but I find the most beautiful kind of love to be the kind that has the partner with warm washcloth in hand standing nearby as their love gets sick. The most beautiful kind of love comes when you give it away, eh?